Episode 182: What to Do When Everyone Around You Takes a Shame Approach
What do you do when it seems like everyone around you, whether it’s your church, partner, or even the state you live in, approaches porn with fear, shame, and panic tactics?
What do you do when it seems like everyone around you, whether it’s your church, partner, or even the state you live in, approaches porn with fear, shame, and panic tactics?
Many of us have received the conditioning that men are typically the sexual ones in a relationship and that they have an insatiable sexual need that has to be satisfied. In the context of a monogamous relationship, the responsibility to fulfill that sexual need falls on the partner, but this belief often doesn’t create great results.
I’ve worked with many private clients in my business, and I’ve also been a private client of other coaches. I’ve learned a lot from being both the coach and client, and with spots for my one-on-one private coaching opening up soon, I thought I would provide some valuable lessons from private coaching for those of you listening here.
This week, I’m clarifying some confusion I’ve seen around the concept of buffering. Many of you understand what buffering means and how it’s showing up for you, but it’s something I’ve coached on a few times this last week, so I knew it would be worth bringing to the podcast to share with you too.